A long-awaited vacation is ahead. All thoughts are focused on how great the next month will be. But what is our disappointment when, instead of a wonderful pastime, we find ourselves involved in the process of sorting out the relationship with a partner …
In recent years, the pace of life has been accelerating so much that people are sorely lacking time. Conquering career heights, a person tries to work and study, constantly improving his qualifications. The work schedule is crammed to the stop, but despite all efforts to cram as many tasks into it as possible, the time is running out. Exhausted by the work imbalance, the employee begins to simply idealize vacation. Happy families and couples in love in the pools are smiling from the advertising brochures, and we already expect our memories to be just as enthusiastic.
And here it is, the long-awaited moment! But it happens that the rest turns into an endless series of mutual reproaches, not giving the slightest pleasure to you or your partner.
Organization
When planning your trip, try to keep all the details in mind. Involve your partner in the discussion and selection of the best option. Do not allow a situation where, upon arrival at the place, even a small deviation can make you mad.
Don't take home problems with you
Many quarrels during a joint vacation can arise as echoes of domestic troubles. One of the partners cannot abstract from some problem, while his half wants to forget about it at least for a short time. You are unlikely to be able to find the optimal solution, being far from home, so postpone the discussion of the issue until your return.
Hear each other
Often the opinions of the parties on how best to spend their free time differ dramatically. You should not turn a joint vacation into a struggle for the right to be the main one in your couple. Don't impose your vision on your partner. Alternate your preferences - today you go to meet his wishes, tomorrow he answers you in the same way.
Optimal daily routine
Chronic fatigue often leads to quarrels on vacation. If insomnia and irritability keep you from relaxing, try changing your daily routine to make it more gentle. Daytime sleep, walking have a beneficial effect and improve well-being.
Budget
Going on vacation, it is better to discuss in advance the size of the budget and its individual articles - food, shopping, entertainment - and during the vacation you will not have any disagreements on the amount and purpose of money spent.
Talk to each other
Do you know how to talk to each other? Are you able to discuss the reality around you - impressions of your place of stay, a book you read - or are you only capable of summing up the past? During the holidays, all the couple's problems are exposed. It is very important that the rest is not wasted on a showdown.
Make the most of your vacation for yourself and your relationship.
